If one were to ask me what shaped me most as a professional, not just as a Chartered Accountant, but as a human being, it wouldn’t be the curriculum, the books, or even the passing of exams. It would be my parents. Everything I am, everything I have achieved, is deeply rooted in their values, their silent resilience, and their unwavering belief in me. I’ve always believed that parents don’t just raise you—they form you. Not by speeches or long sermons, but by the quiet power of example. You learn more by watching them than by listening to them. And in my case, what I watched and absorbed stayed with me for life.
My father was a man of deep integrity and quiet discipline. He believed in letting me explore, stumble, try, fail, and then try again. His parent ing was never intrusive, yet his presence was like the north star—always there, quietly guiding. While he kept a watchful eye, he rarely interfered. He allowed me to make my own mistakes, trust ing that I would find my own way. And because of that trust, I grew into myself. I learned how to think independently, how to take responsibility, and more importantly, how to stand tall after a fall.
T here were times during my CA journey when the pressure was immense—times when self doubt could have taken over. But I always knew that my father was there. Not in the form of easy answers, but in the form of unseen support—like a safety net you never have to use, but always find comfort in knowing it’s there. My mother—what do I say about her? She didn’t understand the complexities of tax laws or accounting standards. She didn’t sit with me over my textbooks. But her emotional strength and unwavering presence were more powerful than any academic help. She was my rock, silently holding space for my ambitions, for my anxiety, and for my triumphs. Whether I returned home with joy or disappointment, her smile never changed.
It
always said: “I’m proud of you. Keep going.”
Together, my parents instilled in me a deep
sense of responsibility, humility, and perseverance. They never demanded success—they only
encouraged effort. And that, I believe, is the greatest gift any parent can give their child.
I was also fortunate to be surrounded by other
role models in my extended family who left a lasting impression on me. One of the earliest inspirations was my uncle, a Chartered Accountant
himself. In fact, my father had once undergone
his own CA training under this very uncle. I grew
up hearing stories of his diligence, brilliance, and
sharp professional acumen. His stature in the
family planted the seed of ambition in me quite
early.
On the other end of the spectrum was my
mother’s cousin, who was a civil servant. From
her I learned the value of public service and leadership. The blend of discipline from the CA world
and the administrative insight from civil services
gave me a broader view of what professionalism
really meant—it wasn’t just about knowledge, it
was also about duty.
And then, there was another uncle—an astrologer by profession, and one of the most spiritually grounded people I’ve known. While science
and numbers guided my career, he gave me the
ability to look inward, to trust my intuition, and
to weather life’s storms with calm. His spiritual
insights, offered with wisdom and warmth, helped
me during some of the toughest phases of my life.
To this day, I carry his teachings with me—not
just in moments of crisis, but in everyday life.
Let me also acknowledge the unspoken yet
powerful influence of friends. I have always
believed that learning doesn’t come only from
elders or experts—it also comes from those who
walk beside you. My friends, many of whom came
from varied professions and life paths, helped me
see the world through different lenses. They were
my sounding boards, my mirrors, and sometimes,
my quiet mentors.
When I finally expressed my desire to practice
as a Chartered Accountant, there were no raised
eyebrows at home. Everyone already knew where
my heart lay. From my childhood days, I had
always been inclined toward this path—it wasn’t
just a profession to me, it felt like a calling.
Interestingly, after qualifying, I had two major
corporate offers—one from ITC and another from
Procter & Gamble (P&G). Both were reputed
firms, offering promising careers. On paper, any
one would have jumped at the opportunity. But
fate, responsibility, and legacy had other plans.
My father had established a growing CA
practice that required nurturing and continuity. I knew, deep in my heart, that I needed to be
there—not just as a son, but as a custodian of a
legacy built with years of hard work and trust.
So, I turned down both offers and stepped into
the world of practice—not with regret, but with a
deep sense of purpose
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